If you've read any of my other posts, you'll be let in on something I've also been let in on while studying my Human Design. A big theme in my chart is gathering knowledge through lived experience and sharing that learning with a wider community. Catch up by learning more about my 3/5 Profile and Hanging Gate 11.
▶ GATES ▷ gate 13 ▷ gate 51
▶ LINES ▷ 3
▶ CENTERS ▷ g center ▷ heart center
▶ CHANNELS ▷ the channel of initiation
▶ PROFILES ▷ 3/5 the great experimenter
With Gate 13, the interpretation I'm experiencing is to share this wisdom like gold. I've actually felt my Solar Plexus Center speaking to me in situations when I've shared the gold when I shouldn't have, and when I've shared the gold with someone who needed it more than I do.
Research has suggested that humans are actually biologically prone to gossiping for various reasons. So, even though I've got a hanging Gate 13 (No Gate 33, which would form a channel from the G Center to the Throat Center, encouraging me to share the knowledge), I've still been caught up in gossip. Toward the end of 2023, I was summoned for Jury Duty. My friends and family begged me to tell them what the case was about, but I couldn't. My past experience with gossip led me to extreme anxiety over sharing something I should not have shared. Call it a Micro LAB, if you will, but I promised myself to not share anything from Jury Duty with anyone to avoid those bad feelings in my gut. And it worked!
So, my mantra became: I gave up gossiping for 2023. It's wild how much less anxiety I have when I'm not sharing things that aren't meant to be shared. The reason? Because I'm raising my vibration and living in alignment and feeling that energy feeling!
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Onto the opposite end: sharing the gold with people who need it more than I do. The reason I chose to explain my Gate 13 this way is because people share gold with me constantly. As a Gate 13, this is totally typical. I mean, strangers will start telling me their life story out of nowhere. This is also a very Taurus (which I am) thing. People just feel comforted by Taureans and share anything and everything with them. With Gate 13, I am delighted to listen to other people's problems. In fact, I even considered becoming some sort of therapist. But, I did not want to follow traditional systems. I actually started a Micro LAB (Remember, 3/5 = The Great Experimenter) called Anonymous BFF where I offered people a 1:1 chat with me (anonymously) about anything.
When people share this 💫gold💫with me, it goes into some gold cave deep within and melts down with all the other gold. Then, when someone comes to me looking for advice, I pull from all the melted gold and share things I didn't even know I had processed from all the conversations and gold drops I've ever experienced in my life. The feeling in my Solar Plexus then is absolute alignment. The important thing to note here is that I feel so turned off by traditional systems like therapy as an outlet for my wisdom because I see it as fixed, LEARNED wisdom from specific text shared in a *methodical* way. What I'm striving for is open, EXPERIENCED wisdom, shared in an *emotional* way.
Out of all this came my freelance persona super BFF (like your BFF with added skills). I looked for a way to turn Anonymous BFF into something more tangible. A way to bring my skills and experiences to paying clients who need my exact wisdom. How do I find these clients? By initiating.
See how it all comes together?
But this is not what the exaltation and detriment speak of for Line 3 with Gate 13. These ends of the energy spectrum are all about truth and pessimism. The way this shows up for me is as a sifter of the gold particles before they enter the cave. What is true about what a person told me and what is not? Can I believe them? What more do I need to know that they told the truth? This can and has led me down a dark path where I obsess over the information before allowing it into the cave to meld. If there's some silver mixed in with the gold, I can't allow it into the melding process.
Don't fear, all those who have received advice from me in the past, this sifting is a natural process and even if some silver seeps in, it is filtered out during the sharing and then receiving process. <3
xoxo, the opposite of gossip girl